These two documents will take you through all the critical things you need to consider if you are heading into a Divorce Trial or a Divorce Mediation. If you choose to purchase one of these very informative and helpful, self-guided programs, you will be much better armed for what’s ahead. Once you have digested the information, feel free to contact me to set up a 30 minute free consultation to discuss your future needs. I offer peer partnership and can be with you every step of the way as you navigate this difficult time in your life. I have been there… I get it, and I am here for YOU!

What I wish I knew before my Divorce Trial

The Unspoken Realities and Strategies

“Surviving a Contentious Divorce Trial,” is a program designed to prepare you for the harsh realities of divorce court that nobody talks about. If you’re facing a trial where lies, betrayal, and emotional turmoil abound, this will provide you with practical strategies and emotional support to maintain your composure and testify honestly.

Overview:

  • Understanding the Realities of a Contentious Divorce Trial
  • Preparing Emotionally and Mentally
  • Strategic Preparation for Trial
  • Maintaining Composure in Court
  • Testifying Honestly and Effectively
  • Handling Lies and False Accusations
  • Navigating Family Dynamics
  • Self-Care and Emotional Resilience
  • Resources for Support

What I wish I knew before my Divorce Mediation

Preparing for divorce mediation is crucial for ensuring that the process goes smoothly and that you can advocate effectively for your interests. During a contentious divorce you may be required to attend mediation but your spouse may have no intention to settle. For them it’s another fact-finding mission. Go in with hope for settlement but prepare to still go to trial.

There are so many things to know and prepare for so that you are fully ready for mediation. It can mean the difference between having a successful outcome or not. Having been through this process, I will be able to guide you through the steps to tale to be ready for mediation and the mediator.

 Overview:

  1. Organizing Your Financial Documents. Know your Numbers inside out and know what you are asking for and why.
  2. Property and Asset Documentation
  3. Child-Related Documents (if applicable)
  4. Preparing a Budget – It is so important that you know your numbers and what you need to live on to present to the mediator as evidence of your expenses and also if you need to go to trial.
  5. Compiling your Marital History
  6. Legal Documents you will need
  7. Identifying Goals and Priorities Developing best and worst-case scenarios for divorce mediation involves thinking critically about what outcomes are most and least favorable to you across various aspects of the divorce. This process helps you prepare for different possible outcomes and allows you to set realistic expectations.
  8. Emotional and Psychological Preparation
  9. Mediation Preparation
    This part of the program is very robust and detailed giving you everything you need to be ready for this part of the divorce process.